Losing ones virginity is an experience you will carry with your for the rest of your life. In fact I always refer to it as my Oh What a Night experience, as in the song. In my case it was a Plan B. Initially I was going to lose it to a Private Working Girl I had stumbled across in the local paper. I then had a look at her web site and thought she would be perfect.

 

This was back in mid 2001. I was a student at the time and as such I didn’t have much money, after paying my living expenses and the cost of train fares to and from TAFE along with going to the footy or in summer playing cricket it left me with $20 per fortnight. I had come to the conclusion that the whole exercise was going to cost me around $390, $250 for 2 hours with her, $110 for 2 nights in the motel over the weekend and $30 for food and other sundry expenses. I was living with family at the time so I was going to book a room at the cheap motel for the weekend to create the illusion that I had gone away for the weekend which was something I did a fair bit.

 

Unfortunately a few things got in my way and my saving got eroded away so after a while I had to start again. I managed to get my saving back on track and was at the point where I had just about managed to have enough money to go ahead with things. I get an e-mail from her saying she had been sick for a week and wasn’t working. A week later when I had the money, I get an e-mail from her saying she was retiring. I was disappointed but I knew I couldn’t do anything about it because I was quite keen to see her after developing a rapport with her.

 

I suppose the one upside of it was I was left with a pocket full of cash. So I decided that I needed a Plan B. That was to just go to the nearest brothel and get it over with. I decided to do it that following Saturday night. (By this time it was June 2002) For the next few days I tried to take my mind off sex as much as possible. On the actual day I spent the afternoon at a Knights game and got Pizza on the way home, for what would be my last meal as a virgin.

 

I then spent the rest of that evening behind closed doors, as the time for me to walk up there drew closer the nerves were really starting to sink in. I honestly felt as though I was about to step into the ring with Mike Tyson. The walk up there felt longer than it was. I’m just lucky I had my discman on me to help pass the time. The only real hurdle was when I got to the railway overhead bridge which was only about 300 meters away my nerves just hit me like a thunderbolt and I threw up over the bridge. I managed to get myself together and got to the parlour. I was greeted and led in by the receptionist where I then asked her if she had anybody who could help me with a special need. It was my first time. Initially she just thought that it was my first time at a brothel, I then had to say yes but it’s also my first time. I’ve come here to lose it. Thankfully she knew exactly what I was getting at and made me feel better saying a lot of guys lose their virginity in a brothel.

 

Once in the room I had the intro. I had 3 ladies to choose from who came in one at a time. The lady I chose was Bridgett. She was a slender lady with blonde streaks in her hair. She told me she was 26 so I took her word for it. I was hoping for a lady who was older than me.

 

After I’d showered and she came back in she gave me a very nice massage. As she rubbed me down I could just feel the nerves disappearing. After that she got me to turn over onto my back and asked me if I’d like a Thai Body slide. I thought why not. Man I can tell you nothing can beat that suffice it to say I really enjoyed that. After that she got the condom out and asked me if I’d like a blow job. Man I loved it, my first blow job, I asked her if she could deep throat me, which she was happy to do. I then asked her if I could go down on her. We had to use a dam but I could live with that. I have to say I enjoyed it as much as receiving it. She was unshaven which I also liked. Then came what I had been waiting my whole life for. We started with the missionary position and also tried side by side and doggy style.

 

After I had blown we just laid there talking for a bit before she asked me if I wanted to give her a massage, which I was more than happy to because I had told her at the start that because it was my first time I wanted to have a feel around of her. She was very accommodating. After giving her a nice massage and having a good feel around she got out a fresh condom and offered me another blow job before we proceeded to have intercourse again.

 

By the time I had blown a second time we had about 5 minutes left where we just laid on the bed talking. Overall she was wonderful. She did make a comment to me that had I not told her I was a virgin she wouldn’t have been able to tell. However I thought that it was important that I did tell her that way if I was doing it incorrectly she’d know why. Let’s face it even though I’d been watching porno movies for 4 years prior to that what you see in those and then put things into practice are completely different.

 

4 June 2002 A Night of my life I will never ever forget!

 

I'll be hoping to have a punt around that date this year to mark my 10th Anniversary